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WOMAN OF WORTH
As I
have stated in my essay of "What makes a person worthy of
love" I have been incredibly blessed to meet four
extraordinary women that are indeed worthy of love.
To be
honest, I have met more than four that are deserving, but
for the purpose of this story, I will relate to the reader
four of whom resonates with my spirit and personal ideal.
Though
it is true that I have mentioned that I have given my heart
to one - I did also mention that I do not want to make my
feelings known to her. As I said, I do not want to
complicate my friendship with the woman of whom I speak.
So I will purposely muddy the water and mention in truth
four women who are of a spirit and character that speaks to
my Ideal of Women of Worth.
The
four women I will list alphabetically instead of any alleged
order of worth.
Amber
Jan
Rachael
Raven
and of
course a woman I have known since birth - My Mother
Amber
is a woman on a social site. I do not use social sites to
seek women or dates or sex.
I mainly use various sites to network - helping those with
good causes and hopefully I will be helped in return for the
good causes that I have great affection for.
More
than a few interesting women have taken an interest in what
I am about or mostly what I am trying to achieve. However,
sadly, I rarely have the time to even send an e-mail, going
months without even sending them a message. Some of these
fine people think that I am rude and simply delete their
profile from my page. I gotta go on record and just say that
it is nothing personal, it's just that I am too damn busy.
I made
an exception with Amber - though after years of her being
listed on one of my social pages, I happen to glance through
and read more of her profile. I noticed that besides being
single, very attractive and close to my age - she was
involved heavily with an international organization that
helps place homeless or impoverished children from third
world countries into loving homes.
Amber
has all sorts of attributes that make her worthy of love.
Besides being very attractive and fit, she is gregarious,
smart, talented, hardworking and forthright. She enjoys
meeting people and learning new things. She works and plays
hard at being an attribute to the organization she works for
and an asset to her friends and community.
Truly
any man would be lucky to land her.
Jan
is another woman that I have been fortunate to work with.
She is also very beautiful and fit and also within my age
range. She is hyper-intelligent and hard working. She is a
loving and devote mother and grandmother - though you would
not think she is that old when you look at her. She has gone
out of her way to always improve her work skills and
education. She can use Excel like know ones business and I
don't believe I have ever met another woman so skilled at
multi-tasking and for long hours each day.
Jan
loves the outdoors. Camping, hiking and fishing is her
passion - along with football, softball and volleyball. I
believe someone mentioned that in school she was varsity in
several sports with a moniker of "Jan the Hammer"
If
only she found a man worthy of her love and devotion for she
also is truly worthy of love.
Rachael
though many years my junior, is captivating enough to make
an old guy like me pause and admire what the younger men
might have a chance of interacting with her. She loves yoga, pottery
and sculpting. In addition to being beautiful as well as
smart, she laughs easily and she is spiritual and has a
quiet integrity. She would rate as worthy as well.
Raven
is like no other woman that I have ever met. Though she is
what many would call a 'Tomboy' she is undeniably beautiful
- whether she chooses to dress down without makeup or
whether she puts on the glam and feminine attire. Either way
I think she is a head turner.
In
addition to her feminine charms she is very physical and
athletic. She has worked all sorts of interesting often very
physical and sometimes dangerous jobs - such as wilderness
fire-fighting. She is smart, talented, world-class artistic
and funny.
Most
important she is honest, loving and loves to throw herself
into any tasks that helps her friends. Despite being of
modest financial means, she is more often than not quick to
give a homeless person a few bucks and without provocation
jump out to help a person in a stuck vehicle a push, a phone
and a ride to their destination.
She
has a passion for reading and learning all sorts of blue
collar skills and anything to do with ancient
technology just turns her crank. Sometimes just being around
her makes me wish I was ten years younger. (Oh well, at
least I am well insured.. LOL!)
Raven
is also a woman worthy of love.
Last
but not least is
My
Mother.
Though she has passed away over ten years ago, she has
always been a model for me of what embodies a woman worthy
of love.
She
certainly would agree with me on my assessment of these four
fine women.
What
sets all of these woman apart from other women not as worthy
of love (or men for that matter) is that each of them would
still be worthy of love even if they lost their physical
attractiveness.
Each
of them have a quality about them that gives them
indestructible sex appeal and charisma and sweetness of
spirit. Each of them have worked hard to attain high levels
of competence in many areas that would make them an asset to
anyone looking for a life mate.
Sadly,
too many people - men and women alike - really don't work at
achieving any sort of excellence in mind, body, or spirit.
Tragically, they simply are content to coast through life
acting as if love is an entitlement. They should receive
without any thought of giving.
Love
is work and passion in action!
So, I
have managed to list five extraordinary women without
showing who I have given my heart to. It does not matter.
What
matters is that they are all worthy of love.
Agree
or disagree with me about whether people do or do not need
to practice due diligence to offer the best deal possible
for others to appreciate. Agree or disagree if you think
that people should make every effort to be as loving to
others - especially a person or people they are engaged in
any variety of relationships.
I do
not doubt that most of us could agree on the fact that any
person guilty of neglecting their significant other, or
engaging in various destructive behaviors such as lying,
cheating or are consistently verbally, emotionally or
physically abuse of being totally undeserving of love.
You
would think that even the most fundamentally developmentally
disabled person would realize that it is not rocket science
when it comes to understanding that mistreating people is
bad while loving and respecting people is good.
You
would think!
However, sadly, that is not the case.
It
astounds me how many people act in the most horrific manner
and yet are floored when the person they have been in a
long-standing relationship leaves them or when other people
avoid them like a bad case of the clap.
To
fully illustrate a mind blowing example of this -
I will
share with you a story called:
THE
UNWORTHY WOMAN
THE
NATURE OF LOVE
&
WHAT IS THE NATURE OF LOVE?
THE
UNWORTHY WOMAN
Other
Stories that touch on the subject of love are:
Neo Talks About Love and Romance
- A story from my Book 'VINCE'S GYM'
REMARKABLE WOMEN
often RUIN MEN
WHAT MAKES A PERSON WORTHY OF LOVE?
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